Hear Me…Understand Me

Can you hear me?

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What about now? And more importantly: Do you understand me?

 

What will it take for you to hear me? When will you stop to listen to what I mean, and not just to what I say?

Learning to converse (courtesy of the wondrously beautiful movie, Arrival)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I watched the movie Arrival today, and have to say that I don’t remember the last time a movie spoke to the inner me so profoundly. The story line was so breathtakingly beautiful because of the depth of understanding and cooperation between the language professor, Louise, and the aliens. Both do not think linearly, and are not limited by the structures that society and our leaders impose upon us. Humans have the capacity to overcome these barriers through shared exchanges and a willingness to step outside of our normal experiences. That it does not happen frequently enough is evident from our current state of global affairs.

Words are the music in my soul, so it was inevitable that this movie would speak to me. Words are the air that I need to exist. Others use similar symphonies like music, color, lines, or texture to express themselves to the outside world. Without them, we only see black and white. And yet all of these things are no longer considered pertinent to the human equation of life. Who thought that this would be a good idea to eliminate them from our lives? Who thought that only linear forward thinking would allow us to successfully venture into our collective future? Who? Because those who made this decision shackled our creative future and tossed away the key. We need to find that key again to unlock not only our human potential, but also to ensure our very survival!

I feel as though I’ve been stuck in a frozen dimensionless plane in life for far too long. Any forward motion is accompanied by too many steps backwards. I look around and see people who talk, but do not stop to truly listen to the meaning behind the words. Their schedules require that expediency be the only answer to the process of living. So, everything outside of the accepted equation is not relevant.

But I also see so many people who are looking for a meaningful connection to facilitate the return of a soul to humanity. We connect momentarily during temporary gatherings, but we need something more that is perpetually sustained. How do we do this outside of the normal channels and organizations? Because clearly, the existing institutions and status quo are failing us spectacularly.

If the current groups will not hear us, then we need to find a different way of communicating. We need to use a different language. We need words that exist outside of structure. We need art…and music…and science…and texture…and life. But most of all we need access to all of these tools to recreate the rich fabric of humanity that once existed. We need to free them from the shackles of conformance.

Life does not conform; it adapts to its ever-changing environment. So, I’m reaching out to someone…anyone…to come talk to me. Mutually build a society from the ground up so that the ending of arrival can become a reality for humanity. Please hear me. Tell me where to meet you. I’m willing to take a step forward with you together towards a world that is in our dreams.

 

I’m sending a signal out to the world once again. Who will hear me and start the conversation? Who will offer more than what money can buy? I’m so tired of the superficial. I want depth back in my life. I know that others out there do as well. Do you understand what you’re hearing from my very soul?

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Heart Pounding Mike Yung

When we’re in need of soothing, many of us turn to music. It is the warm blanket upon which our souls snuggle into. It’s been a while since I heard a voice that left my heart pounding in pure joy. THIS is what perfection sounds like to me, and people living in New York can hear him on their way to and fro. You guys are really lucky to hear Mike Yung in person! I found him being shared on Reddit last night and would LOVE to hear him in person. So in the meantime, enjoy this and support him in any way you can. These are the kind of musicians we should be enjoying.

 

I don’t know about you, but his voice brought me to tears at the sheer power and perfection. It really is unfair that many of those who have the most beautiful talents to share never get seen or heard. I really hope that Reddit helps him get the light he so obviously deserves. Mike Yung, everybody. He’s in a subway near you in New York. I wish that I was there!

…and here you can find Mike Yung on Twitter. If his album ever gets out, I’m there in line waiting to buy it!¬†Please make it happen!!!

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Words To Think About…F451…Faber

We’re all looking at books that we read in the past to make sense of the present. One that is being talked about is Farenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury. It’s been so long since I read it that I only remembered the sense of it, and not the details. I just changed that by re-reading it and got so much more out of it this time around, as I looked at it with new eyes.

1st edition cover of Farenheit 451 (courtesy: Wikipedia)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here’s something that got to me, spoken by Mr. Faber, the retired English Professor:

Mr. Montag, you are looking at a coward. I saw the way things were going, a long time back. I said nothing. I’m one of the innocents who could have spoken up and out when no one would listen to the ‘guilty’, but I did not speak and thus became guilty myself. And when finally they set the structure to burn the books, using the firemen, I grunted a few times and subsided, for there were no others grunting or yelling with me, by then. Now, it’s too late.

Or how about this:

It’s not books you need, it’s some of the things that once were in books. The same things could be in the ‘parlor family’ today. The same infinite detail and awareness could be projected through the radios and televisions, but are not. No, no, it’s not books at all that you’re looking for! Take it where you can find it, in old phonograph records, old motion pictures, and in old friends; look for it in nature and look for it in yourself. Books were only one type of receptacle where we stored a lot of things we were afraid we might forget. There is nothing magical in them at all. The magic is only in what books say, how they stitched the patches of the universe together into one garment for us.

And finally:

The books are to remind us what asses and fools we are. They’re Caesar’s praetorian guard, whispering as the parades roars down the avenue, ‘Remember, Caesar, thou art mortal.’ Most of us can’t rush around, talk to everyone, know all of the cities of the world, we haven’t time, money, or that many friends. The things you’re looking for, Montag, are in the world, but the only way the average chap will ever see ninety-nine percent of them is in a book. Don’t ask for guarantees. And don’t look to be saved in any one thing, person, machine, or library. Do your own bit of saving, and if you drown, at least die knowing that you were headed for the shore.

Those are from the second part of the book, when Montag is starting to awaken from deep sleep. I had forgotten just how profound a book this is, and that even back in 1953, Bradbury was clearly seeing what we could become as we set down the path we’ve been stumbling down. Now, look at where we are, and admit that the destination is most definitely not the splendorous jewel of a future we were promised in all of those movies, novels, and national aspirations. Fear has us returning to our past to see if we can find the answer to wake up from this nightmare.

The question is: What will we do with the knowledge once we find it? How do we change what has been written in stone in our societies, so that we can reach a future that all of us want to be part of?

We’ve all been so worried about the one-named beasts that threaten to smother ourselves: censorship, racism, sexism, inequality, classism, dogmatism, materialism, and on and on and on…that we forget what we accomplish collectively that allows for books like this to appear. Now, it seems like these words to think about, by one man who had knowledge but lacked power, can restore the power of the collective to see a better future than the one we will be facing.

Read a classic book, and see what lesson you can bring to life. Heck, it doesn’t have to be a classic, as long as it speaks to your soul (not your ego). Share it over and over until you’ve breathed life back into it. Stoke one fire that isn’t meant to destroy but to create. It’s what we desperately need now.

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Time For The Arts

People think that the arts can be killed by force, but the arts contain the force that drives us all. Something to remember!!

- thanks to natezomy from Reddit for this awesome share

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Standing Up

It’s going to be a rough time for everyone as the clashes come to light after days of darkness. But then sometimes, something enormous comes along that rights things, if only for a short moment. Just remember that the moment exists for much longer in our minds, hearts, and spirits.

How about something like this:

 

 

 

 

 

The Women's March 2017 (credit: @mwilner)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and how about some history

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When times are the darkest, there will be others who bear torches to see by.

…needed to be said

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Change?

Happy New Year everyone! May it be much brighter for all of us as a whole.

 

Is this the year where the norm of status quo will change, or will it be more of the same?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This quote by the Amazing Grace Hopper is a powerful reminder of how these words have shut down so much opportunity, simply because those who utter them refuse to see past the comfort and ease of status quo. It helps that the lady who uttered them was a computer scientist helping to push the envelope of programming during its infancy, as well as a Rear Admiral in the US Navy.

Well, we are indeed moving further into a time of profound change, or so many people like myself believe. Whether it is for good or bad depends on who the people leading the charge for change are, and what they manage to accomplish. Last year felt painful to many of us, possibly because those in charge kept uttering those words as though they were gospel. Well, many of those people are no longer at the forefront of society, simply because the quote above does ring true for far too many.

Change should always take into account the full history of what it’s impacting, to see if it is really necessary. 2016 was the year that proved to us that much of society and its institutions are not as they need to be to meet a positive future for mankind and the planet Earth.

What do you think? Can we make changes in the foundations of mankind so that a much better outcome for all can happen in 2017? Or will it be a continuation of the pain from 2016. Yes, it’s up to each and every one of us to take a step in a different direction so that we don’t always keep hoping that things will be different though we keep taking the same actions.

Fingers crossed, cuddle a rabbit to touch his feet (and keep it firmly attached so that he or she can continue to hop about happily), find a four-leaf clover that hasn’t mutated from some weird chemical we’re using…whatever it takes to get some luck to pull us up the cliff we are falling over.

btw…this is not a pessimistic thought, but the most positive of hopes. Don’t wait for others to change, but start the process for yourself. I am working at just that myself.

Things have not always been done this way. They’re just things that we’re used to doing without deep thought. Change? It might be just what the future of us as a whole wished for.

…just saying

 

Thanks again Reddit for sharing at the most perfect of times.

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In Memorium…

A Worthy Opponent (courtesy of gargantuan18)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Battles are always hard fought, but rarely do the victors choose to respect the fight at the end. Well, it’s clear that gargantuan18 understands the good fight and how to celebrate a worthy opponent. So, he gives you the Rat Memorial from the seemingly endless Eggy Battle of 2016. And who doesn’t like a tasty egg? Clearly, both of them do love those eggs – scrambled or otherwise.

After a year full of battles that we all have fought, lost (or won if you were lucky) or even observed from afar, it seemed like a fitting way to end this year by share how true honor is shown. Not the disrespect that we all have experienced by being on the losing side, but the worthy respect for the ultimate battle of wills. And understanding the need for a good sense of humor when the going gets tough.

If only those in critical roles could learn this lesson as well. Otherrwise, 2017 is going to be way more bumpy than 2016 (hopefully, not as fiery as this one). At least Reddit is always available to share these stories.

…just saying

 

Happy holidays to everyone!!!

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Do Unto Others

We may not realize that the decisions we make are wrong until it’s too late. It’s in our nature…

Bull Moose battle frozen in time (credit: Jeff Erickson)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We’re taught certain truths from our earliest moments by those who come before us. One of those truths is to do unto others as they would do unto you. Whether you follow a religion closely or not, this motto should be familiar to you. Its message is pretty hard to question once you’ve lived the results for yourself.

Love begets love, and hatred begets more hatred. It is a rare person who can reciprocate with the opposite if they understand the aforementioned motto. There are variations to this motto, but the underlying understanding is the same: expect to get back what you give out.

The world at large is going through another cycle of hatred (or maybe it just woke up again), partially caused by fear and also caused by selfishness. It’s hard to see that light will diminish the shadows once darkness has thickened.

Light can only penetrate dark if it has help, whether by chopping down that which blocks the light or holding a light up against the darkness. Both actions hold merit depending on what the darkness throws out and who receives the message. We always hope that we’ll be the bigger person and let love win, but sometimes even love cannot overcome hate or fear.

Yin and Yang are the opposite sides to life, and they need one another to exist. There will be people who bring forth love, but there will be more who cannot fight their natural instincts. If nature’s battles, like the bull moose fight found in Alaska by Jeff Erickson, prove that it is hard to overcome inner instincts, then we’ll also follow similar paths ourselves.

The only difference is that human’s actions are typically supported by thoughts that show purity or impurity. Not of truth, but of intentions. And that’s where Do Unto Others takes on importance, because your words and actions carry consequences. It won’t matter where you stand in life. What you send out will come back to you. Your pretty words of denial won’t stop those collective reactions, because you failed the basic test of understanding. You either see other points of view or you don’t. Or you simply don’t care…

If you show that you don’t care about others, why would you expect them to care for you?

Like the Bull Moose, your fate resides in whether you see a future for all or just your own. If it’s the latter, then don’t be surprised at what you get back.

…just saying

 

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Honor

We cherish it as much as we seek it. It’s integral to our standing in the world. It’s fundamental for the actions we take. And yet, honor is often misunderstood by its very existence. Why do we seek honor? Is it for ourselves or is it for others?

Our ancestors are honored for their sacrifices and their teachings. Things that we use when convenient for our own purposes. Is a flag honorable? Is a medal worthwhile to uphold? Is a place so important as to override its very reason of being? What happens when the actions behind them are not honorable, even if the results are? Why should we defer to society’s criteria of honor, if they are not our own?

The Remembered of Georgia National Cemetery (courtesy of freestockphotos)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

All living creatures, of humans are but a small part of the whole, hold memories of their cherished ones close to their hearts. And sometimes they seek to find a place of remembrance that will resonate, not only for themselves but for others.

But why do we remember them? Why do we honor them? Is it their sacrifices, or should it be about who they were? Not as in community standing, but in how they treated others. What they held as the most important part of who they were to themselves. What motivated their actions, passions, and respect. Were they able to maintain that honorable strain when it counted most?

It’s evident that honor holds a different place depending on how we are raised, and what we hold as most important. And in many cases, the honor is completely separate from what institutions and nations hold in high esteem.

The heart holds the key to what drives our honor. Each of us has different motivations for respect. Yet most forget that respect is earned, and not just to be expected. To be old doesn’t always garner respect, if the years spent cannot be held up to the light. To be in charge cannot guarantee loyalty, if that very leadership is not driven by the care for all under their command equally and lovingly. To be ¬†honored is more than simply ticking off a checklist that society deems as the standards to uphold. As it should be!

Honor is about having an example in your heart that pushes you to be your best for yourself and for others. It is not about achievements and awards, and certainly not about legacies. If those are what you hold dear, then you are clearly not understanding the human experience as it’s meant to be lived.

Your past endeavors cannot reflect what is in your heart as most important. They are simply results of actions, intentional or not, that may have brought you accolades. All of the trophies and certificates are simply for show to appease your ego. Your ego is the window to your soul that others see. Whether it is an ugly representation or one worthy of honor is up to each individual you encounter.

You can’t make others like or respect you, because that is something that only they can give you of their own free will. All of the posturing from every person around you won’t shake the truth that you know and feel deep in your gut. Instincts are ingrained by nature itself, and that won’t be swayed by the number of medals you flaunt.

We may live in packs that value respect and even honor, but every pack has its black sheep. And you might notice that some of those black sheep really don’t care about what you think. Pushing your will on them just might backfire and bring about results that you’re not ready to face.

…just saying

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The Bigger Picture…Gets Bigger

While I seriously detest politics, I understand that whether we like it or not, it is this part of establishment that controls our world. So, I wanted to have a brief talk about a subject that is really important, though not in the way that politicians and the media typically covers it.

Take a look at the image below. What do you see?

What the 2016 election really looks like so far (courtesy: NYT)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Every election frustrates people on all sides because they hear the winners claiming the right to decide simply because they are part of the majority. I always wonder exactly what their majority really looks like – what is the bigger picture. Well, it looks like the NY Times has answered my question about the 2016 primaries that were so hotly contested by all sides. The claims of winning by the majority have been so vocal, and they have taken that claim as a mandate to make all of the decisions for not just the country, but also the world. The term “national politics” carry little meaning in a globalized world. It should be termed “international” politics when a country as “powerful” as the United States is the subject. Yes, I am putting the word powerful in quotations because that is not my word .

This year, the Democrats and the Republicans, have both had contested elections because there was competition amongst a range of candidates. As usual, power was the deciding factor of the competition. Money did play a large part, but it was overpowered by connections and stage control.

Each convention had the largest stage to put on a play that tried to control the narrative of this election. The winner wanted the nation to believe that they alone spoke for the populace, because their voters allowed them to win their respective nomination. But when you see a picture like the one above, that narrative suddenly can be called into question.

  • “How can 9% of the votes become a mandate to make all of the rules for your party?
  • Is the fact that both parties are private, as well as their various supporting institutions, an unfair advantage simply because they can use the laws to their advantage for complete control?
  • How do we have a real conversation about what every person cares about, when the “majority” controls the national narrative?
  • How do the minority ever get their concerns heard if the majority is not interested about their issues?
  • When does the media take responsibility in their share of the narrative control that created a two-party system that does not represent every person in the country?
  • When can we question the rule of law, when it is clearly controlled by groups who have captured the system?
  • When can legal be questioned because it is detached from morality?
  • How does “business as usual” change when it is successfully confronted by an alternative approach that is supported by more people – many who cannot have a voice in the current system?
  • When do we recognize that the world is also captured by our actions and decisions, and that they rely on our responsibility to take the entire world into account? (Remember – globalization)

There are so many questions to ask, simply because of this one bigger picture. The NY Times has a further breakdown of those who did not participate in the primaries for a variety of reason. But none of them will be heard from because the majority does not speak for all of their concerns. The majority speaks for the picture that it wants to create. Hopefully, the NYT builds a story about this picture because it is an important one.

When the picture is of a country that once was, or maybe never had been, then how do we move to the future as we only look at the past? The vibrant promise of this country, and every other country out there, is the variety of people who make up the whole picture. Every person has their own background, their own lifestyle, and their own story. Every person is just a little different than the next person. But we only seem to look at similarities when we make an acquaintance because we want a common foundation to build on. When the common foundation doesn’t appear, then people tend to get nervous because they’re out of their comfort zone. When did comfort become the deciding factor for all rules in life? And when did we all decide that rules were the foundation for living life?

You’ve heard the phrase, “rules are meant to be broken“. It’s a pretty important concept because that is how progress (change) is made. Change is the way of life, as nothing about life is static. So, maybe now is the time to acknowledge that change is ahead and rules will not stop progress when it is being pushed by the future.

Only 9% of the population of the US voted for either the Democratic or Republican candidate. So, 91% of the voices are now held hostage by a minority. Somehow, their majority doesn’t look the same, does it?

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